Sunday, December 9, 2012

Where I am Led - Part 13 - Success (by Julala)


Tomorrow (Monday 10th December @ 12pm SLT) we will be discussing success.

Savor your small victories and they will lead you to big ones.

What does success mean to you?  How do you measure your own successes and those of your partner?  How do you recognise the successes and reward them?

What defines a "successful" relationship?  and can a D/s dynamic make it easier or harder to reach your goals in terms of your relationship.....and your successes as an individual?

Do you allow your past failures interfere with your future successes?

“The line between failure and success is so fine. . . that we are often on the line and do not know it.”
― Elbert Hubbard


“Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. ”
― John R. Wooden
“Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself."
― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning


If time permits we will also consider two "thoughts for the day", the first discussing the comment "There is no such thing as just a slave" and the second considering when (and if) it is appropriate for a submissive or slave to be seen and not heard.

These Monday discussions are using the service exploration workbook "Where I am Led" by Christina Parker as a point of reference.  However, you do not need to have read or even seen the book to fully participate in the discussion.

Please do join us on Monday (10th Dec) at 12pm SLT at the Temple of Discussion on Respect sim.  Everyone welcome.  Discussion is voice led but text also very welcome.

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