Sunday, November 18, 2012

Where I am Led - Part 10 - Honesty (by Julala)

My goodness - we've reached part 10!   And tomorrow (Monday 19th November at 12pm SLT) W/we will talk honestly about "Honesty".  We A/all accept that honesty is important in any relationship but what are Y/your experiences and thoughts about it in a D/s relationship?

"To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

How many of U/us are dishonest about the D/s aspects of O/our lives?  Is SL a place where W/we can escape O/our real lives in order to taste O/our fantasies?  Most of U/us certainly can not talk freely in a vanilla world about O/our D/s lives....O/our somewhat secret lives.....is this acceptable dishonesty?  Where is the line?  where is Y/your line of acceptable dishonesty?

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.” 
― Jane Austen, Emma

What is Y/you discover that Y/your partner is being dishonest with Y/you?  Is it a terminal to Y/your relationship?

How do Y/you display Y/your honesty?  Do people see Y/you as an honest person?  Do Y/you see Y/yourself as an honest person?


“To conceal anything from those to whom I am attached, is not in my nature. I can never close my lips where I have opened my heart.” 
― Charles Dickens

How honest are Y/you with Y/yourself?  That perhaps is the biggest and hardest truth to face......



Also, we'll ponder two more Thoughts for the day as time permits - one looking at reaching out to others in the community, and the second considering the time a Dominant gives to Their submissive - a privilege or an entitlement?

These Monday talks are continuing a theme of looking at some concepts of service and D/s from Where I am Led by Christina Parker - Y/you do not need to have read the book or own it - it is just used as a reference point.

A/all welcome to join the discussion, which will be led in voice so please do bring Y/your ears.  Text contributions always welcome.

Monday 19th November 2012 @ 12pm SLT at The Temple of Discussion on Respect Sim.

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